The Algorithm of LOVE
- It has contributed to the end of 6 wars,
- It has worked to release 50 prisoners and hostages,
- It has even helped to stop a genocide!
Inputs To AVOID:
AVOID:
The following list is for self-assessment to avoid these factors:
- Are you pushing a personal agenda?
- Are you asserting that "I" am right and "you" are wrong?
- Are you using the tactics of shame or disgrace; "pointing out mistakes"?
- Are you keeping a record of the wrongs committed by the other person?
- Are you holding anger toward the other person?
- Are you acting proud of yourself, your culture/country or religion?
- Are you happy when bad things happen to your enemy?
Inputs To EMBRACE:
EMBRACE:
The following list is for self-assessment to practice these factors:
- Are you patient with each other?
- Are you acting in kindness or acting upon your own self-interests?
- Are you seeking justice and truth?
- Are you hopeful to God for a positive outcome?
- Are you giving up easily or are you working together persistently?
- Do you think that the other person is trustworthy?
- Are you protecting the other person?
How To Use:
Get Started
Apply the Algorithm above while doing the following:
- Eat a meal together
- Pray with & for each other
- Highlight common ground & resolve any misunderstandings
- Get to know them personally (Family, Passions, Concerns)
